“ But if you knew, you might not be able to see it again tomorrow, everything would suddenly become special and precious, wouldn’t it?” — Kafka on the Shore, Haruki Murakami We move through life assuming continuity—believing the places we love will stay, the people we cherish will remain, and the moments we live will …
Continue reading Places, People, Moments: The Beauty of Impermanence
When a mother has a baby girl, people sometimes respond with comments like, “Don’t worry, maybe you’ll have a boy next time,” as if having a daughter is somehow disappointing. These remarks often reflect outdated beliefs or personal biases, rather than any real issue. The truth is, daughters are just as valuable and bring their …
“If today feels heavy, carry it lightly. If it feels empty, fill it with the smallest comforts. A warm drink. An uplifting song. Soft clothes. A deep breath. You don’t have to fix today. You just have to move through it.” -Vex King Some days feel heavier than others—days when the world presses in a …
Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you chose your life — you didn’t settle for it. But remember… ten years isn’t guaranteed. Tomorrow isn’t promised. Life is short, and passing quickly. So do what your heart wants. Follow it — fully, unapologetically. Say no to anything that doesn’t align with who …
In many South Asian communities, life often follows a traditional script. Expectations are clear, and deviation is discouraged. For women in particular, there’s an unspoken standard—live quietly, fulfill your roles, and don’t ask for too much. Over time, this has created a culture where many live on autopilot, checking boxes but rarely feeling fulfilled. But …
Continue reading Chasing Perfection: Is the Ideal Life Just a Myth?
One day, you'll do something for the last time. The last time you hug a loved one without realizing it. The last late-night drive with your best friend before life pulls you in different directions. The last meal at your favorite spot before it closes. The last time you’ll set foot in a city you’ll …
You are not responsible for other people’s happiness. Let them be unhappy. You are not responsible for making people understand your choices. Let them be confused. You are not responsible for managing someone else’s emotions. Let them feel how they feel. You are not responsible for proving your worth to people who don’t see it. …
Tawakkul isn't about pretending you're okay. It's not about suppressing fear or forcing yourself to "stay positive." It's about showing up-messy, broken, overwhelmed-and saying: "Ya Allah, I trust You... even though I don't understand." When Ibrahim (AS) was thrown into the fire, he didn't know how Allah would save him. When Musa (AS) stood at …
Hey guys! This post is dedicated to everyone who wants to invest on basic yet effective must haves for winters. The cold weather leads to dry skin which means you need to have good products in your routine which protect your skin barrier. A good diet too helps a lot to combat harsh weather conditions. …
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