What could you do less of? What could I do less of? It’s a question that sounds simple, but the answers usually sit quietly in the corners of our lives, waiting for us to notice. For me, the first answer is this: taking everything to heart. One harsh tone, one careless comment, one moment of …
Tag: Self care
Overthinking and the Art of Letting Go
What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can? If there’s one part of my daily routine I wish I could skip, it’s the time I start overthinking. It usually begins in the quiet moments—when the world slows down but my thoughts speed up. I replay things in my head, …
The Splurge & The Save: My Hair Care Edit
I love experimenting with my hair—whether it’s new colors or different cuts. Changing it up every year feels like therapy for me. Sure, it can get a little pricey, but it’s always worth it if you go to a good colorist who really knows what they’re doing. Recently, I went for golden tones, and I’m …
The Power of Being You
We live in a time where scrolling through social media often feels like flipping through a magazine of edited perfection. Celebrities and influencers have access to makeup artists, fillers, Photoshop, and filters—and yet, we compare ourselves to them in our most natural state. No wonder so many people feel insecure. But here’s the truth: you …
On the Days That Feel Heavy
“If today feels heavy, carry it lightly. If it feels empty, fill it with the smallest comforts. A warm drink. An uplifting song. Soft clothes. A deep breath. You don’t have to fix today. You just have to move through it.” -Vex King Some days feel heavier than others—days when the world presses in a …
Chasing Perfection: Is the Ideal Life Just a Myth?
In many South Asian communities, life often follows a traditional script. Expectations are clear, and deviation is discouraged. For women in particular, there’s an unspoken standard—live quietly, fulfill your roles, and don’t ask for too much. Over time, this has created a culture where many live on autopilot, checking boxes but rarely feeling fulfilled. But …
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Things you’re not responsible for;
You are not responsible for other people’s happiness. Let them be unhappy. You are not responsible for making people understand your choices. Let them be confused. You are not responsible for managing someone else’s emotions. Let them feel how they feel. You are not responsible for proving your worth to people who don’t see it. …
Tawakkul 🖤
Tawakkul isn't about pretending you're okay. It's not about suppressing fear or forcing yourself to "stay positive." It's about showing up-messy, broken, overwhelmed-and saying: "Ya Allah, I trust You... even though I don't understand." When Ibrahim (AS) was thrown into the fire, he didn't know how Allah would save him. When Musa (AS) stood at …
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